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Thursday, October 18, 2007
Thailand Adventure Day 2: Ayutthaya
After spending a night in our room, what a great feeling it is to wake up at the hotel, to be away from all the stress of coding, testing and catchup, and to know that I'm in a different country. I'M ON VACATION! Since I'm not really a morning person, I had to drag out of myself from the bed. Half-awake, I did my morning routine. Good thing, the Bangkok time is 1-hour delayed from my body clock (KL time) so even if I'm late, I'm still on time.. Get it?

Anyway, we had a sumptous intercontinental breakfast at the hotel - we had waffle, bacon, omelet, French toast, fruits, blueberry danish and the list goes on. I am not a morning person so I'm not really in the mood to chat that morning (usually I'm quiet at mornings as my mind is not awake). Well, I have no choice because the cab the would bring us to Ayutthaya, our itinerary for that day, came at around 8:30.

For the second day, we decided to go out of town. We had 2 choices - Ayutthaya and Koh Samet. Koh Samet is one of the famous beaches in Thailand. Some of my friends compare it to Puerto Galera and many tourists who wanted to experience the beach in Thailand go to this place because of its proximity to Bangkok (about 3.5 hours away). However, since travelling to the beach would take 7 hours of our time and we had booked our hotel, this plan didn't push through because we thought that this could be tiring. Ayutthaya, however, is nearer. I planned to go to this place when my parents visited Thailand but due to time constraints, we were not able to do so. Some of my friends who have been to this place gave a good feedback. Given this, we decided to visit this place.

Ayutthaya used to be a capital of Thailand from 1350 to 1767. It was a huge city with beautiful temples. In 1767, it was totally destroyed by the Burmese and the Thai people has not forgiven them for doing this. The gold that were stolen from them are now seen from Rangoon and what was left were enormous ruins which attracted a lot of tourists all across the globe. On December 1991, Ayuttaya was declared as a World Heritage Site in Thailand.

Since I woke up early that day, I slept at the cab on our way to Ayutthaya. I expected that the trip would take 2 hours but we arrived at Ayutthaya after an hour. Here are the places that we've visited:

1. Wat Yai Chai Mongkhon
Located in the Southeast of the Ayutthaya Muang Island, the temple was established in 1357 AD in the reign of King U-thong (1350-1369). The Great Chedi Chai Mongkhon, a token of King Naresuan's victory over the Crown Prince of Burma in the duel on elephant back, was erected later in the reign of King Naresuan (1590-1605) at the same time of the temple renovation. Phra Phuttha Chaiya Mongkhon in the ordination hall is one of the most sacred Buddha images in Ayutthaya (excerpt taken from the Thaiways website).


2. Elephant ride
One of Thailand's famous symbol is an elephant. Most of the tourists who visited Thailand never fail to ride an elephant :) We all paid 500 baht for a 30-minute elephant ride that would take us around the ruins and a swamp. Each of us were provided with 3 pieces of cucumber which was use to feed our respective elephant. I am really scared of heights and based from my pictures, you can see that I'm scared while the rest of my companions were enjoying it. It may seem scary but believe it or not, I had a blast :)



3. Wat Mahathat
This is the famous site with the Buddha’s head inside of a tree. It almost looks like the tree is giving birth to him. Locals like to say that the tree lifted it off the ground since it was so holy. Wat Mahatat is perhaps the most historically relevant ruin in Ayutthaya. There are some very unique chedis here, but the main highlight remains the Buddha’s head in the tree (excerpt taken from the Ayutthaya Info website). Notice that in of these pictures, the buddhas were headless. It was believed that the heads of these statues were stolen by the Burmese.



4. Wat Chaiwatthanaram
Wat Chaiwatthanaram was built in 1630 by King Prasat Thong. One theory is that he built this temple on the location of his former home to make merit for his mother – or possibly stepmother. He also had Bang Pa-In Palace build in honor of a second maternal figure, which causes debate as to who King Prasat Thong’s mother actually was. A second theory is that King Prasat Thong (1629-1656) built it as a testament to his greatness and to quell the revolts caused when he usurped the throne. Another theory suggests that he built this temple to celebrate his recent victory over Angkor, using captured slaves and architects from that city to construct it. A final theory is that Wat Chaiwatthanaram was established as part of a campaign to ward off total destruction of the city at the end of the Buddhist millennial year. Buddhist monks predicted the annihilation of Ayutthaya at the millennium unless enough merit had been accumulated by then, so King Prasat Thong launched a massive campaign to build and renovate temples across the city. Whatever the purpose, Wat Chaiwatthanaram marks the beginning of the late Ayutthaya period. The Khmer-style Prang returned after a lengthy period of absence while replaced by bell-shaped chedis (influenced by Ceylon and the Sukhothai Kingdom) (condensed from Ayutthaya Info website)

Since we can get a good view of the temple from afar, we didn't bother to enter the vicinity (which means that we don't have to pay an additional 30 baht). We don't mind though because we spent our time with our new acquaintance =) (see the puppy, he's so cute! hihihi).

5. Wat Lokaya Sutha
The highlight of this temple is its enormous reclining Buddha Image (37 metres long and 8 metres high). It is usually wrapped in brightly colored orange cloth, which makes a beautiful contrast with the blue sky. Notice also how Buddha’s toes are equal in length. This is one of the better sites to visit while in Ayutthaya with little time (taken from Ayutthaya Info website).

6. Wat Phra Si Sanphet
Wat Phra Si Sanphet was the original site of the Grand Palace, but no monks lived here because it was considered a royal temple. The first two bell-shaped chedis were built in 1492 by King Ramabodhi II (1491-1529). The eastern chedi contains the ashes of his father, King Boromtrailokanath (Trailok). The middle chedi contain the ashes of his elder brother, King Borommaracha III. The western chedi, contains his own remains. At one time, each of the three chedis had a wiharn structure built between them, and they are still represented by the remaining staircase. Another wiharn was added in 1499, which contained a standing bronze Buddha image that was covered with gold. The Burmese melted down the 19 metre high Buddha image for its gold (taken from the Ayutthaya Info
website).



Camwhores as we are, we can't help ourselves but to take a lot of pictures. And since the weather in Ayutthaya is quite hot, we treated ourselves with a coconut (notice how Gen took the coconut meat from the picture which caused her to become the butt of jokes once again =P)





7. The Vihara of Phra Mongkhon Bophit
The principal bronze Buddha image, Phra Mongkhon Bophit, is presumed to be built in the reign of King Sanphet VIII or King Tiger (1703-0708). In 1767, when Ayutthaya fell to the Burmese, the vicinity of the monastery was set on fire to remove the gold that gilded the stupas there. Phra Mongkhon Bophit was burnt too. The right arm from the shoulder fell off. A few years ago, the Fine Arts Department discovered lots of small Buddha images inside the left chest. (taken from Thaiways Magazine website).

Before we entered the temple, there was a young boy who's trying to sell us some flowers for the Buddha. He was talking to us in Thai and we can't understand him. We tried to take his picture but the little boy was shy (see the boy with a stalk in the picture below).


It was a tiring day for us. Since it was a hot and humid day, all of us got a tan (or to put it in jologs term, nognog na). We left Ayutthaya at 3:30 PM and we slept again on our way back to Bangkok. We were tired from that trip so we took a rest at the hotel until 7 PM.

We decided to go to MBK shopping mall for dinner. It is one of the popular malls in Bangkok. This was the first time where we ate at the food court. Eating at this kind of establishment required us to be adventurous because no one would explain to us what a particular dish contains unlike in a restaurant where the waiter can explain the ingredients. I ate Pad Thai that night and I was satisfied with it. When we're done eating, we did some window shopping, a few minutes before the mall closes. Fortunately, I managed to buy a city mug from Starbucks, which I told myself to collect in every city that I've visited.

Back at the hotel, we looked at the pictures that we took earlier and laughed at ourselves before we got back to bed. It was a tiring day for us but hey, this is expected. I'm glad that on this day, I've tried something that I've never experienced on my first trip to Thailand - to visit Ayutthaya. I really enjoyed it; in fact, I highly recommend this place for those who's going to visit this country for an authentic Thai experience ;)
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Sunday, October 14, 2007
Bangkok Trip - Day 3: Shopping Galore
For our third day, what we did is why most people would do when they visit Bangkok - shopping. Bangkok is a haven for bargain hunters with a lot of choices to choose from. The great thing about Bangkok is that as long as you are good in haggling, you will get good deals when you shop. On my first Bangkok trip, the hotel that we're staying at have a lot of Filipino entrepreneurs who would visit Bangkok to shop for the supplies for their respective business. A proof that it is a shopping haven for every bargain hunter.

For this trip, I told myself that things when I shop, my priorities are 1) a set of spoon and fork for my mother (ang pinakamahalagang bilin nya sa akin; gusto nya kc ung makapal), 2) thai iced tea (I'm really gaga about this, do I need to say more?) and 3) Bangkok's famous spicy tamarind as my pasalubong to my friends in KL. I know where to get the last 2 items so the only thing that I need to find is my mother's cutlery set. The last time that we went to Bangkok, she restrained herself from buying all the cutleries that she saw. When she found out about this trip to Bangkok, the first thing that she said to me is to buy her a set. I asked her what's the difference between the cutleries in Thailand and Philippines and she said that she wants a stainless and thick one (okay fine..).


For our first stop, we went to Chatuchak Weekend Market at the Morchit Station of the BTS Skytain Sukhumvit Line. This market, covering an area of more than 35 acres, contains 15,000 shops and stalls offering a wide range of products from household accessories and Thai handicrafts. This is considered to be the Divisoria of the locals. I could say that the prices in this area is really cheap compared to other stores that I've been to. But just like in Divisoria, this place is crowded and is really hot. I would recommend this place if you have the luxury of time and the patience to shop because it will definitely worthy. But since its very hot that morning, we don't think that we can handle the heat (for our 2-hour stay, I think I've consumed 3 bottles of drinks). But we didn't go home empty handed though because Dru bought a lot of nice shirts for himself and my 3 companions haggled for souvenirs. I also managed to find the cutleries that my mother asked me to buy for her (its pretty expensive pala.. nautakan ako dun ha hahahaha!). Oh, and I think its worth to mention that I bought a half-kilo of Thailand's famous lanzones (my mother went gaga over this that she ate 2 kilos in just one-sitting!).

Since we can't bear the heat in Chatuchak, we all headed to the Platinum Mall, Bangkok's newest mall located near the Pratunam area. This mall was suggested by some of our colleagues who have been to Bangkok recently. It reminded me of Greenhills, thus there's airconditioning inside the mall, much to our delight. But before we proceed with our shopping, we had our lunch at the food center at the 5th floor where I had a Thai omelet with crab meet while my 3 companions had a spicy stir fried beef. After that, we all decided to have our shopping galore and set to meet at 6 PM at the KFC in food court. Rey went on his own while Dru, Gen and I went for shopping. Well, the clothes in that mall has small sizes (big girl kc ako) and the design is not really my style (it's too kikay for me). The same thing happened to Gen as well. So Gen and I ended up as fashion consultant for Dru, who willingly obliged to all our suggestion. We really like to dress him up - aside from the fact that he's willing to do buy whatever we suggest, he is tall, lean, cute (although he's not aware of it) and is a real gentleman. In other words, he can make a lot of girls drool (well, HE IS and he's clueless about it) and we just wanted to bring that out physically (for the record, he's not my crush and I treat him like a younger brother. I just wanted to clarify that). Anyway, he bought 2 tops and a pair of pants. As we shopped for clothes, Gen and Dru acted like kids playing the whole time - they won't stop bickering and teasing each other. Imagine, 2 people who are taller than me doing that.. and they treated me as their babysitter. Anyway, I'm used to it because they would always do that even during office time via Skype.

Since only Dru was the one who found some clothes and he already maxed out his budget, we decided to go to the Pratunam market, where I managed to buy a top, a tube, some souveneir shirts and tamarind for my pasalubong. We're a few minutes late from our 6 PM meeting with Rey, who also went to Pratunam because he wasn't able to buy that much in Platinum. I was really tired with our shopping at that time - imagine I was carrying my mother's cutleries and 2 kilo of tamarind (and the clothes that I bought which is not heavy at all). My feet was really aching at that time.

But it doesn't end there. Since most of us were frustrated from our shopping, we decided to go back to MBK shopping center. Since I was really tired from all the walking that we did, I just sat for more than an hour at the bench near the grocery. My feet was aching. I let my other 3 companions do their own shopping. When Gen and Dru were done with their shopping, I went to the grocery to hoard my Nestle Tea Time Thai Iced tea (I was able to hoard 8 bags, imagine that (the lady in front of me at the counter told me that I don't really like the Thai Iced tea so much haha!). Anyway, I managed to buy 2 knitted sweaters (wee!).

When I got back, we all proceeded to the store that sells Replay and DKNY pants at affordable prizes. All my 3 companions were able to buy their own pants. It was a funny experience because we found out a lot of things: The size of Gen's waistline and that its was Dru's first time to try some fitted pants (he's used on wearing loose ones). After that, we all headed to KFC for dinner.

To reward ourselves from that exhausting shopping experience, we all went for a 2-hour Thai Massage with herbs. It was not my first time to do so. Frow what I know, Thai massage is a dry massage and I have to be dressed while I was being massaged. I didn't know that the package that we availed is more that what I expected. Let me put it this way - we ended up having that typical massage. It was another funny experience for us because we had our own booboos and awkward moments with the masseuse. Hihihi..

The third day made me experience what it means to shop til you drop. It was a VERY tiring day for me. Imagine, we went to 4 shopping areas! Still, the Thai massage is a very good treat for all of us. Not only that, all the things that we did on this is such a great bonding experience for all of us. ;)
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Friday, October 12, 2007
Bangkok Adventure Day 4
Waah! This is the last day! Time flies so fast indeed and we need to make the most out of our trip on our last day. Still high from our Thai massage experience from the previous night, I had to drag myself out of bed. As usual, I woke up at around 7 AM, still half-awake for me to take a bath. Some of my stuff were in my luggage, leaving enough room for my toiletries. Anyway, I told myself to enjoy our last day, even if I barely slept (usually I'm grumpy when I didn't have enough sleep). But hey, this should be an exception because we're on vacation right?

We enjoyed our last breakfast at the hotel. Even though our breakfast consists a wide range of Western delicacies, I can't imagine myself eating that kind of breakfast for the rest of the week (in other words, nakakaumay). After we had our breakfast, we went back to our room to do our final packing (waah! This is it!) and we checked out from the hotel at around 9 AM. We left our things with the hotel after our checkout.

For our last day, our itinerary is to visit the famous temples in Bangkok - Wat Phra Kew (Temple of the Emerald Buddha), Wat Po (Temple of the Reclining Buddha) and Wat Arun (Temple of the Dawn). Since we wanted to experience riding a ferry at the Chao Phraya River, we opted to take the train to Saphan Taksin (BTS Skytrain Silom Line) and then take the Chao Phraya River ferry at the Sathom station, just right below the platform.



I can compare the Chao Phraya River to the Pasig River in Manila. The water is muddy with a lot of water lilies (and other objects like water bottles or plastic wrappers). But its difference from the Pasig River is that its not stinky. I found the ferry ride to be relaxing, even though the river is nothing fancy for me since I grew up in Manila and most of the things that I can see are something that I've experienced in Manila, except for the temples and the monks. I spent the ride taking pictures (well what else should I do? I'm a tourist! =P). At that time, I really appreciate the wide angle feature and quick shutterspeed function of my camera =)


We arrived at Tha Chang pier, the nearest station to Wat Phra Kew and the Grand Palace. The weather is hot and humid, just like in the previous day. I had to setup my tripod for my camera so that all of us are in the pictures. But it was tiring to setup the tripod that day so I decided not to use it anyway.


Based from our research, we're supposed to wear long pants and closed shoes when we go to the temples. But when we arrived at Temple of the Emerald Buddha, I realized that there are people who's wearing sandals (and I'm wearing boots, can you imagine that?). Anyway, its a very hot day although it didn't keep us from taking pictures (camwhore kc kami bwahahaha!!). Even though it was not my first time to go there but hey, 2 years is still a long time for me to remember. During the last time that I've been there, the Grand Palace was under construction. Now, I'm proud to say that I have a picture of the new and improved Grand Palace.


After our stint at the Emerald Buddha, a man approached us that Wat Saket is open for only that day and that there's a free entrance to see the Lucky Buddha. He said that we can visit 3 other temples, all for the cheap price of 40 baht! Since we're all excited to see more temples and to ride a tuktuk, we all went for it. After a few moments, Rey felt that something's wrong and if we have read something about it. So we became alert on where we're supposed to go. After we saw a sign that points where Wat Saket is located and realized that we're heading the opposite way, Gen asked the tuktuk driver where we're going. Then the tuktuk driver told us that we should head to Thai Centre first. But since we had no time, Gen asserted to visit just the 2 temples that the man at the palace mentioned us. But the tuktuk driver was persistent to go to the Thai Centre since he has a free gasoline coupon that he can only avail once he brought us there. At that time, we knew that it was a scam where tourists are brought to a place that sells jewelries, and later, force them to buy some. We hopped off the tuktuk right then and took a cab going to our next destination, Wat Po.


The temple of the reclining buddha houses the largest reclining buddha of Thailand. It is 46 meters long and 15 meters high. This is the most famous backdrop of people who have been to Bangkok. During our visit, we did a ritual at the back of the status - distriubuting small coins in the bowls lined up at the corridor (parang lifesize na sungka). They said that it brings good luck :)


After Wat Po, we had lunch in a nearby restaurant (I forgot its name though). Rey, Dru and Gen had grilled chicken in basil sauce while I had chicken in green curry, which I've been craving since we arrived in Bangkok. This is the same restaurant where my parents and I ate after we visited Wat Po. Their menu includes Thai Iced tea with condensed milk, which I found to be tasty 2 years ago. But now, I found it to be bland and the reason why I ordered 2 glasses was due to my spicy (but delicious) meal. I left that restaurant with a smile on our face because of its good food and ambience.


Our next stop, Wat Arun. The temple is found on the other side of the river so we paid 3 baht to ride a boat that took us there at Tha Thien pier. Once again, I played with my camera and took pictures using different mode. This is one of the famous landmarks in Bangkok which I think should be viewed at sunset. The temple is made of Chinese ballase porcelain and is well crafted as the temple is decorated with plates and saucers of various multicolored sets of china. The temple is really tall but you can climb if you wanted to see a bird's eye view of Bangkok. But take note that the steps are very steep, so I did not dare to go at the highest level (I'm scared of heights). While my 3 companions explored the view at the highest level of the temple, I just entertained myself taking pictures of the temple (panalo pa rin ang wide angled!). By the way, I finally setup my tripod since its not that hot and there are less tourist so we're all in the mood for a group picture.


The ferry ride back to Sathorn pier was a relaxing one, probably because I was tired from our temple hopping experience. I almost fell asleep inspite of the noise coming from the speaker where a tour guide speaks about Bangkok.


We reached the hotel at around 5 PM, which gave us enough time to freshen up before we leave for the airport. At 6 PM, a taxi picked us up to bring us to the Suvarnabhumi airport, Bangkok's new airport. I was impressed at the departure area (unlike at the arrival area). It reminded me of Changi International Airport from Singapore and KLIA but I think its bigger. Two years ago, we departed from its old airport, Don Muang - Bangkok International Airport, which I find to be a bigger version of NAIA. I'm really impressed with Bangkok's new airport. Lucky for us that even if we flew with AirAsia which is a low-cost airline, we departed from Suvarnabhumi airport, just like the other international carriers :) Another thing that's worth mentioning here is that on our way to the depature gates, there's a lot of duty free shops inside that entices passengers to buy (as if the tourists' shopping in Bangkok is not enough!).

We're supposed to sleep on our way back to Kuala Lumpur. Gen and Dru sat at the right wing of the plane while Rey and I stayed at the left wing. Rey and I chatted about our entire stay in Bangkok - the place, the culture, the experience, things that we saw and how similar it is to Manila and things that we've noticed around us (*wink wink*). We talked and laughed in the plane and needless to say, the nap that we're supposed to do didn't happen. Time flew so fast that we didn't notice that we've chatted for almost 2 hours when we arrived at the LCCT airport.

Back at KL (waah!), we hired a cab that's supposed to take us to our respective houses. However, there was a misunderstanding so we ended up taking a bus from the airport going back to KL Sentral. That's where we took our nap. After we took off the bus, I realized that the 1 hour 45-minute bus ride is almost the same as our plane ride from Bangkok.

Rey lived in KL so he took his own cab to his unit while Gen, Dru and I took the same cab going to Petaling Jaya. The original setup was to drop off Dru first at Ehsan but since it was late, Gen thought it would be better if the cab driver would go to Menara Jaya (my place).

Overall, I really enjoyed our Bangkok experience, even though its my second time. On my previous visit, I didn't enjoy it that much, probably because I just saw a few things - I was confined at the Pratunam area and was only able to visit the temples in Bangkok. Also at that time, I can't help but compare it to Singapore - where people are disciplined and the city is neat and organized. But since I've lived in Malaysia for a while and I know what to expect, plus the fact that I'm in good company (naks), I love it! Now I'm looking forward to our next misadventures (san kaya? sana outside Southeast Asia naman *wink wink*). I realized that one of the reasons why I liked it this time is because I know that it's close to home - the culture, the friendly people, the scene, the chaos, the sights, the good food (syempre kailangang kong sabihin un). But even if Manila has the potential to compete with Bangkok, it is sad to note that due to the events that's happening to our country, we can't do anything about it.

Anyway, all I can say for now is Khop Khun Ka Bangkok! =)
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Tuesday, October 09, 2007
Sleepless (and restless)
Its been a while since I last updated my blog. As of this writing, I can't sleep because I received a page this morning (yes, I'm on production support). I still haven't had enough rest since I just came back from my 4-day vacation in Bangkok with Gen, Dru and Rey yesterday. We barely had enough sleep (and rest) during our trip and I'm still making up for it. But I had so much fun and it doesn't matter even if I sleep late and wake up early. I really had a blast with this getaway. I hope everyone did as well.

Sadly, this week is going to be a busy one for me at work and I won't be able to update this blog with our Bangkok experience (too bad because I think its better if I write it while I'm still high on my vacation). Hopefully, I'll be able to write about it during the holidays (Hari Raya) next week.

In the meantime, just look at some of the pictures that we took during our trip :) Just click on the picture below for an enlarged view.
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Monday, October 01, 2007
Anything Goes..
Due to insistent public demand, Avenue Q will have a rerun from December 14 - 23. Unfortunately, I won't be home since my parents are coming here in Kuala Lumpur and the flights going back to Manila during that time are very expensive. Waah too bad, because I didn't get it as a gift for myself on my birthday and then I will miss the opportunity to have it as a Christmas gift (sadness..). I just that it would be a hit once again so that there will be another round of performances and that I would be able to watch it. Or maybe, its meant that I watch it in Broadway bwahaha (libre lang ang mangarap kaya pagbigyan nyo na ako no!)

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One of the good things of being here in this for a musical freak like me is that musicals from West End are being staged here twice a year. The same thing also happens in Singapore. Six months ago, I was able to watch 2 musicals from West End - The Phantom of the Opera in Singapore and My Fair Lady here in KLCC. This season, 2 more musicals will be staged - Chicago in KLCC and Chitty Chitty Bang Bang in Singapore.

I don't think I will be watching these 2 musicals. I've watched Chicago previously in Broadway (much to my regret that I've watched The Boy from Oz instead) and for the other musical, well, I'm planning to go to Singapore twice on December and its too much for me to go there on November. Also, I'm not really a fan of that musical so I'll just pass. I just wish that the organizers (whoever they are) will bring all the other musicals that I wanted to watch (*keeping my fingers crossed*).

By the way, Lea Salonga will be coming here next year for the Asian tour of Cinderella the musical. I think that she's too old for the role, but I'm a big fan of hers and I really wanted to see her perform onstage.

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Its confirmed that one of my idols, Beyonce, will be performing here in Malaysia a month from now (November 1) at Bukit Jalil Indoor Stadium. If I can get a ticket for her concert, it would be my second time to watch her live. All I can say is that she's a great performer and singer and I'm looking forward watching her again onstage.

However, Malaysians are known to be very conservative. In fact, some of the famous artists were asked to tone down their acts when they held their concert such as Gwen Stefani and the Pussycat dolls. If this is the case, I wonder how Beyonce will perform since part of her package is her sex appeal. Well, there's only one way to find out. The event will be held a month from now but its weird that tickets were not yet sold.

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In just 2 days, I will be off to another country aside from Singapore, Indonesia and Philippines. I'll be going to Bangkok with some of my friends. That's all I can say for now. I'm looking forward on eating authentic Thai food once again and hoarding lots of bags of Thai Iced Tea. (See? I know my priorities =P)

That's it for now. Until my next blog :)
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To love or be loved by Cherie Ann Lo
Note: This article is published from the Philippine Daily Inquirer from the Youngblood section on Sept 25, 2007. I like this article so much that I have to post this in this blog. I hope that you'll enjoy reading as much as I did.

OUR TEACHER in philosophy once asked our class whether it is harder to love or to be loved. I did not have a clue on how to answer the question, but I took it to heart. After a few bottles of cheap wine and nights spent until dawn, the question gained contour. But instead of finding an answer, the first thing that came to my mind was another question: What is to love?

I am not entirely sure if what I have arrived at is true, given the limited experiences I have. The only thing I am sure of is that love entails some letting go. It is allowing the other to grow, to pursue his happiness even if that pursuit does not include my own. Love keeps one happy with the thought that the one you let go will be happy, even if it means being without him. As Marcel would put it, "To love anybody is to expect something from him, something which can neither be defined nor foreseen; it is at the same time in some way to make it possible for him to fulfill this expectation." In setting him free, the only expectation I can hold now is that he will be happy. But it is by letting go that I can give him the possibility of being happy.

Even without this other person, loving transforms life into living. Love puts action into life. Life is not life when lived in passivity. Life becomes dynamic when one loves. Love colors the boredom that the routine of life brings. Breathing is no longer just for the purpose of keeping the self alive, it becomes living for the loved one.

Is loving the same as having? It is not. If I claim ownership of someone, he will not be the same person I loved when he was not my possession. Owning something is the same as personalizing it. If an object is personalized, it loses its character. It becomes a reflection of the self. When this happens, then what I love is myself, not the other.

Having someone makes it so much harder to let him go. But if one just loves with respect for the other person, then letting go becomes less difficult. It will never be easy, because there will always be a desire to have that person. Maybe it's human nature to be greedy and to want what one loves. But in the course of having, love disappears.

So loving someone is hard. It seems to be having but it is not. It is a conscious action so that it is not allowed to turn into ownership. It is a giving in to one's very nature, to one's desire to want the best for the loved one. But at the same time, it also entails some control over one's natural impulse to own.

But what is it to be loved? I believe that being loved entails utmost patience. Being loved is an act based on the other person. It is hard in the sense that one cannot control how the other loves. It is like having a stranger hold one's hand. There is fear that this person will lead one to an unknown place. There is apprehension that it will into a grasp. What if he does not let go? The only thing that can loosen this grasp is time.

Patiently waiting for time to knock some sense into the other or the self is probably one of life's hardest tasks. Time stretches into infinity when one is holding on to someone even if it is not reciprocated. There is again this notion that one can have this person but the truth is, one can never have him or anyone else for that matter.

Is it not hard to know that a person does not love you the way you want him to? It is one of life's greatest tensions: the incongruence between how one is being loved and how one loves. To be loved is also hard because it involves acknowledging the possibility that one can never control how the other person loves. It involves an uncertainty which can condense into fear.

So which is harder between loving and being loved? I still haven't come to a conclusion. The intensity by which love impacts a person can make everything both easy and hard. To love someone makes it easier to live, but at the same time, life can be harder because that someone can never be owned. To be loved entails patience which forms character. But it also involves a fear, an uncertainty.

The more important question is, will love ever be easy? I want to believe it is, but life proves otherwise.

Cherie Ann Lo, 20, is a BS Psychology senior at the Ateneo de Manila University


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Move It Concert: The Young KL SIngers' 5th anniversary concert
It's been a while since I last updated my blog (well 4 days is considered to be long for mer hahaha!!) since I've been busy chatting these past few nights hehehe.

Earlier, I watched the Young KL Singers' Move It Concert with Dru and Gen. The Young KL Singers is a chorale group under the Young Choral Academy here in KL. I found out about this group from the Kakiseni website, the site for anything related to the performing arts here in Malaysia. This concert is a celebration of their 5th year anniversary and was held at the Bangsar Shopping Center. This is my first time to watch this kind of event here in Malaysia.

The group performed some Malaysian songs, folk songs from some parts of the globe and of course, songs from the musicals such as Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Oklahoma and Rent(woohoo!). I have enjoyed their concert even though I'm not familiar with some of their songs. Most of their songs gave me goosebumps while they perform, which indicates how their rendition made an impact to the audience. I can't help but be amazed with all of their efforts. I have a short term stint on chorale singing (with the Bells and Balls and in other contests during my High School days) and I was able to experience how gruesome it is to prepare for only 2 songs, but it's all worth it when I see how people were touched by our efforts. Among all types of singers, my hat goes off to the chorale singers and musical theater performers.

Again, kudos to the Young KL singers for a job well done and I'm looking forward for their next concert :)

PS: It was my first time to hear the song "Music Brings us Together" by Russell Robinson, and I liked the lyrics. When I looked for the song in Youtube, it seems that its a famous song that chorale groups would usually sing. I'm still looking for the song lyrics in the web.
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