| Tuesday, May 08, 2007 |
| On love, part one.. |
A friend just told me that she has a boyfriend for the first time. He seems to be the perfect guy - he manages his own business, has a PhD in History, intellectually stimulating, very mature compared to the guys she had met - he doesn't beat around the bush. But there's only one problem though, he's married and is in the process of annulment.
My friend and I have the same outlook when it comes to relationships, which is the probably the reason why we're still unattached at our age. We let reasons dictate our actions. In our circle of friends, we usually have the same stand with regards to love. She mentioned that it was not easy for her to decide if she should go for that guy. She suppressed her emotions and tried to do the most logical thing - to stop seeing him until the annulment is granted (which is hello, would take a long time to process in the Philippines).
But she know that she can't afford to lose him. She likes him so much. On what's supposed to be their last date, he gave his piece which convinced her to give him a nod. And now their a couple, to the disappointment of her conservative mother and shock of her friends.
This situation made me think that it is possible that no matter how rational I am right now, it could happen to me as well - to defy reason for the sake of emotions.
I'm happy that she finally met the man who made her take the huge leap. I guess that what's everybody is saying about love - take a risk =) i just wish that the gamble is all worth it. Good luck my friend =) |
posted by subhuman @ 11:26 PM  |
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nice post. =) i wonder what part two will be all about? hehehe - gen =)
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nice post. =) i wonder what part two will be all about? hehehe - gen =)